Was I married to a stranger?

Was I Married to a Stranger? A Tale of Discovery and Love

Sometimes, life takes a sudden spin and leaves us questioning everything, even the person we chose as our life partner. Is it possible to feel like you are married to a stranger? June 30, 2023. This is our story of rediscovery and realization.

As if in a surreal movie, my husband and I found ourselves isolated from the world when the lockdown began in March 2020. We decided to weather this storm with our two loving children aged 15 and 12 at our abode on Martha’s Vineyard.

Summary of the Story

Lost in Familiarity

Weary with the strangeness of this new world, we started unpacking. Sweaters, boots, textbooks, cellos – each item opened a floodgate of emotions. As I looked at these treasured mementos, I realized I had spent 20 long years with my husband. Yet, I couldn’t shake off the question: Was I married to a stranger?

A Shocking Revelation

“Sometimes, I’m shocked when he speaks,” my friend confided one day. That statement hit me hard. I realized I had been feeling similarly about my own husband. My eyes scanned the storyline of the romance drama 'Married to a Stranger.' The words seemed to echo my own feelings of bewilderment within my marriage.

A Stranger or A Companion?

Like the woman in the drama who developed severe amnesia and couldn't remember her family, I too felt lost. Was I married to a stranger? The question haunted me day and night. The man I thought I knew was revealing new facets of his personality each day.

Our Redefinition of Love

However, as days turned into weeks and weeks into months, instead of growing apart, we found ourselves moving closer. His words, once a source of surprise, were now a reason for my smiles. We were learning to understand and appreciate our differences.

In Conclusion – Embracing the Stranger

My tale may seem dramatic, but it's nothing less than reality. It answered the daunting question, Was I married to a stranger? Yes, I was. The stranger who became the companion of my soul during the most challenging times.

FAQs

Q: Can long-term marriages feel strange?

A: Yes. Often, we presume we know our spouse completely but we might discover unknown aspects of their character later on.

Q: Is it normal to feel like you are married to a stranger?

A: Yes. As people evolve, their personality can change or reveal different facets.

Q: How can you cope with feeling married to a stranger?

A: Open communication, understanding, and patience can help bridge this gap and deepen the bond.

Q: How can I rekindle my relationship during such a phase?

A: Spending time together, indulging in shared interests, and rediscovering what made you love each other is a good start.